I give up

They win. I give up. I've destroyed an entire buddy group and hurt people I don't even know, all because I tried to protect my own heart from breaking. I don't know what else to do but leave. I can't post any questions any more, because anything I do ask or say will be scrutinized by certain people. The old members of the aforementioned buddy group have made a new board that's invite only (as it should be) because of me and those who chose to vocally support my feelings. I feel terrible that all this happened, and all because someone posted images I feel are inappropriate.

Maybe I should go this TTC journey on my own. :(

Isn't it amazing...

Isn't it amazing how, in the eyes of some people, the only opinion you are allowed to have is one that matches theirs? Otherwise you are a horrible monster. This goes both ways. People saying they are from "where I can finally say what I want" telling people that they don't have the right to be upset about disturbing images. People who are already hurting that don't understand that dragging someone else into their pain is not going to ease it. If I don't want to see a certain image, I shouldn't have to. If I want to SAY that I don't want to see a certain type of image because it upsets me, I should have the right.

Freedom of speech goes both ways, folks.